3 simple steps to handle criticism

                             3 Simple steps to handle criticism        

 

           Our friends,family and our relatives are well versed in criticising us by saying that we are not good in our work ,about our character,attitude,and behaviour.

  Generally people react to criticism in two ways

*They themselves feel for being critisized .doing this reduces their positive level in them.There will be only negative thoughts around them.

*The second type how people react to criticism is that they think who is he/she to say about me.Is he first good in his work?

But both these ways are wrong.By the following 3 steps you will come to know how to handle criticism.

1.Change your mindset:  If someone criticizes you, don't register it as they are criticising you.Instead it should be taken as feedback.So we should take others words as feedback and we should try to develope ourself instead of feeling for being criticising.

2.Accept your mistake:  If someone in your workplace criticise you by saying that your work is not proper or you are allways completing your work in last minute, Take a deep down breadth and think what mistake we did and try to change yourself better instead of blaming them.

3.Don't listen to all criticism: There are two types of criticism they are

*constructive criticism

*destructive criticism

       The first type of criticism is already discussed in the above points.

*Destructive criticism: Destuctive criticism is discouragement given to others.Here the people criticise you without any reason.Don't listen to this type of criticisim's .It is because they cant do what you are doing .If there is a reason in criticising us it can be rectified,but criticising without any reason is not good.

          "Just move as a deaf frog without listening to this type of criticism and keep moving on your path."